Privacy
Your relationship, your data.
Last updated · 2026-06-25
Lovember is a couples-only concierge. The whole point is two people, so the data is shared and it's sensitive — we treat it that way. Here's the plain-language version.
What we collect
- Account & pairing — your name, email, and the link that pairs you with your partner. Both partners sign in; one account per person.
- Relationship details you give Ember — birthdays, your city, budget, tastes, and the things you tell Ember so it can plan better.
- Plans & reactions — the date plans Ember proposes and how each of you swipes on them.
- Basic device & usage data — the minimum needed to keep the app working, secure, and improving.
How we use it
To line up date nights tuned to the two of you, to find the one you'll both say yes to, and to keep your account secure. That's it. We use trusted services to run the app — sign-in, hosting, and place/venue lookups — and share only what those need to do their job.
What we don't do
We do not sell your data. We do not use your relationship data to train third-party AI models. We don't share your information with advertisers.
How long we keep it
We keep your data while your account is active. Close your account and we delete or anonymize your personal data, except where we're required to keep records by law.
Your choices
You can view and update your details in the app, unpair from a partner, and request a copy or deletion of your data. Reach us at admin@lovember.ai and we'll take care of it.
Ages
Lovember is for adults. You must be 18 or older to use it.
Security
Authorization is verified server-side and your data is protected with documented safeguards. No system is perfect — if you find an issue, tell us at admin@lovember.ai.
Changes
We'll update this page as the product evolves and announce material changes in-app. Continuing to use Lovember after a change means you accept the update.
Contact
Questions about your privacy? Email admin@lovember.ai.
A plain-language summary, not a substitute for legal advice.
